Not all girls are raised in similar environments. As a result, it's not certain that each one will transpire into the world of a stereotypical "girly-girl." Some desire a much more unorganized and adventorous lifestyle. Some even fall somewhere in the middle where they strive to be athletic and competitive but still enjoy to be pampered and beautiful. Personally, that is where I have taken a seat on the bench of womanhood. It may take quite a few years for most girls to find where they are comfortable in society and to know how to feel comfortable in their own skin. Until then, it is an exciting experience to watch them transform and grow as individuals.
There are two little girls in my life, my cousin and a friend, that have looked up to me as a role model, and also a female who knows the ins and outs of fashion and beauty. They have defined the meaning of being a "girly-girl." Together, we updo our hair, paint our nails, apply our makeup and dress ourselves with the latest trends. It is an exciting experience for all of us. Luckily, they have brought me along with them on the journey of learning what makes them feel beautiful, but also what sets them apart from others. It is fun for me to show them the ropes but also teach them a lesson on how to express themselves through inner beauty.
Unfortunately, it is very difficult for a young girl to grow up in this manipulating and judgemental society we live in. There are high expectations set for the female gender that not everyone can live up to, depending on their standards of living and personal perspectives. Some girls make it out alive, while others struggle to be accepting of their image. Since I have experienced this first-hand, I do my best to help the younger generation survive the maturing stage a little bit easier than I was capable of doing. The glamour of being a girl can be fun and entertaining but it is important to keep realism at an arm's length away.
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